A wonderful man came into my life. Mellow and generous. Helped me with my rent, provided me with transportation, food, utilities and moral support. Ask me to marry him and bought me a ring. what more could one ask for? FREEDOM !
Turns out that he is very controlling. He wants to know every detail about everything. Who was on the phone?, what did they say?, Who came by to see you today? how long were they here.If I'm outside working in the yard he wants me to come in, If i'm at the neighbors house he wants to pick me up as soon as he gets home. Sometimes he's only at work for a couple of hours, but wants me to adapt to his schedule. I have adapted quite a bit. But Ive been alone for a long time and have gotten set in my ways. That has all changed. It's lights out when he is ready for bed. And wants me to ride with him everywhere he goes even to the corner store if I'm busy doing something else. If I complain he starts to whine and then it's "why don't you love me anymore" "I guess I should just leave since I'm not wanted". It makes me sick. Nobody wants to here that crap.
He tells me that he knows what hard times are. How can you know about hard times and still be so spoiled.
Now, here is the straw that is breaking the camels back..I receintly lucked tino a tempoary job cleaning a house for a lady so she can get it ready to rent out. I was trying my best to do a good job but the phone rings every thirty minutes. i have to pull off my gloves , dry my hands, and dig the phone out of my pocket to here "Are you done yet? "when do you want me to pick you up?" What's for dinner?" "The dog is acting silly" "the neighbor came by"
and it just goes on and on. I've ask him "honey please let me work, so I can get finished and get paid" he will say "ok" and then call again in an hour or send a text. I love this man but is all this nessessary? I'd rather be alone again.
